Sins: to hide or to keep secret?

Sins: to hide or to keep secret?

We all know very well that we are all sinners.
No matter how good we think we are,
how 'religious' we look, or how good people think we are...
we are ALL sinners – without exception.
Sometime or the other, be it in public, in private,
in the darkness of night or in the brightness of daylight, we all commit sins.
It's an inherent part of human nature.

As far as our own sins are concerned, we should always try to hide them and not make them public.
Of course, if we have done something which has hurt someone else or denied them their rights,
then we should definitely fess up and ask them for forgiveness (such as stealing something or damaging someone's property).
But if we do something which we know we shouldn't be doing
(such as making out with a member of the opposite sex or looking at stuff we shouldn't be seeing),
we should keep quiet about it and sincerely ask Allah for forgiveness. Allah says in the Holy Quran:

(Quran, 2:222) اللَّهُ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ التَّوَّابِينَ وَيُحِبُّ الْمُتَطَهِّرِينَ
Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly and He loves those who keep themselves pure and clean.


If we see or hear about someone else committing a sin, we should always try to ignore it.
Instead of spreading it, we should hide it and keep it a secret.

It is reported that the Prophet (SAW) has said:

Whosoever covers (the sins of) a Muslim, Allah covers (his sins) on the Day of Judgment.
(Reported by Bukhari)

If we find it too difficult to keep it secret, the most we are allowed to do is discuss the issue with the person, in private,
and try to encourage them to stop committing the sin(s). Allah has said:

(Quran, 9.71)
Quran wrote:
Sura 9 - At-Tawba [Repentance, Dispensation] Verse 71-71:
71. وَالْمُؤْمِنُونَ وَالْمُؤْمِنَاتُ بَعْضُهُمْ أَوْلِيَاءُ بَعْضٍ يَأْمُرُونَ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ وَيَنْهَوْنَ عَنِ الْمُنْكَرِ وَيُقِيمُونَ الصَّلاةَ وَيُؤْتُونَ الزَّكَاةَ وَيُطِيعُونَ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ أُولَئِكَ سَيَرْحَمُهُمُ اللَّهُ إِنَّ اللَّهَ عَزِيزٌ حَكِيمٌ

Quran translation wrote:
Sura 9 - At-Tawba [Repentance, Dispensation] Verse 71-71:
71. The Believers, men and women, are protectors one of another:
they enjoin what is just, and forbid what is evil: they observe regular prayers,
practise regular charity, and obey Allah and His Messenger.
On them will Allah pour His mercy: for Allah is Exalted in power, Wise.

The only exception to this is if we find out that someone has committed a crime that has left someone injured or killed,
or in which something was stolen or someone was denied something to which they were entitled to.
In these cases, we MUST make the information public so that the person is brought to justice.

One thing we must not do when we find out about someone else's sins is discuss them and gossip about them. Why? ...
Because doing so will considered backbiting, which has been compared to eating the flesh (meat) of our own dead brother.
Allah Subhanahu wa T'ala has said:

(Quran, 49:12)
Quran wrote:
Sura 49 - Al-Hujraat [The Private Apartments, The Inner Apartments] Verse 12-12:
12. يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اجْتَنِبُوا كَثِيرًا مِنَ الظَّنِّ إِنَّ بَعْضَ الظَّنِّ إِثْمٌ وَلا تَجَسَّسُوا وَلا يَغْتَبْ بَعْضُكُمْ بَعْضًا أَيُحِبُّ أَحَدُكُمْ أَنْ يَأْكُلَ لَحْمَ أَخِيهِ مَيْتًا فَكَرِهْتُمُوهُ وَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ إِنَّ اللَّهَ تَوَّابٌ رَحِيمٌ

Quran translation wrote:
Sura 49 - Al-Hujraat [The Private Apartments, The Inner Apartments] Verse 12-12:
12. O ye who believe! Avoid suspicion as much (as possible):
for suspicion in some cases is a sin: And spy not on each other behind their backs.
Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? Nay, ye would abhor it...
But fear Allah: For Allah is Oft-Returning, Most Merciful.

But what if what we're saying is really true?

Allah's Apostle (peace be upon him) said:

Do you know what is backbiting? They (the Companions) said:

Allah and His Apostle (peace be upon him) know best. Thereupon he (the Prophet) said:
Backbiting implies your talking about your brother in a manner which he does not like.
It was said to him:
What is your opinion about this that if I actually find (that weakness) in my brother which I made a mention of?
He said: If (that weakness) is actually found (in him) what you assert, you in fact backbited him, and if that is not in him it is a slander. (Reported by Muslim)

If we enjoy spreading stuff about people, we must think about what we are doing. Allah says in the Holy Quran:

(Quran, 24-19)
Quran wrote:
Sura 24 - An-Noor [The Light] Verse 19-19:
19. إِنَّ الَّذِينَ يُحِبُّونَ أَنْ تَشِيعَ الْفَاحِشَةُ فِي الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لَهُمْ عَذَابٌ أَلِيمٌ فِي الدُّنْيَا وَالآخِرَةِ وَاللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ وَأَنْتُمْ لا تَعْلَمُونَ

Quran translation wrote:
Sura 24 - An-Noor [The Light] Verse 19-19:
19. Those who love (to see) scandal published broadcast among the Believers, will have a grievous Penalty in this life and in the Hereafter: Allah knows, and ye know not.


In the above verse, Allah is warning all those who like to spread scandals and gossip about other believing Muslims to be careful,
because they "will have a grievous Penalty in this life and in the Hereafter".

May Allah protect us all, and may He forgive all our sins. Ameen.
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