Darul Ilm

Darul Ilm


 
HomePortalFAQRegisterArcadeLog in
Imaam al-Shaafi’i Rahimahullaah said: ‘There is nobody except that he has someone who loves him and someone who hates him. So if that’s the case, let a person be with the people who are obedient to Allaah `Azza Wa Jall.’

Share | 
 

 Reminders regarding zinah

View previous topic View next topic Go down 
AuthorMessage
Al Qadr
Princess Super Mod
avatar

Female Number of posts : 1129
Location : Chocolate Factory
Religion : Islam
Registration date : 2007-11-03

PostSubject: Reminders regarding zinah   Wed Mar 26, 2008 6:54 pm

  • The Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wa said, “There is no sin after shirk greater in the sight of Allah than a drop of semen which a man places in the womb which is not lawful for him.” [al-Bukhari, Kitabul-Hudood]


  • “They [the 2 angels] told me [the Prophet] to proceed on: so we proceeded on and passed by a hole like an oven with a narrow top and wide bottom and the fire was kindling underneath that hole. Whenever the fire-flame went up, the people were lifted up to such an extent that they were about to get out of it, and whenever the fire got quieter, the people went down into it and there were naked men and women in it. I said ‘Who (what) is this?’ They told me to proceed on… They explained to him the meaning of what he saw and they told him: “And those whom you saw in the hole (like an oven) were Az-Zunaat (those who committed illegal sexual intercourse)” [al-Bukhari, The Book Of Funerals] - from a longer hadith on punishments of the Hereafter


  • al-Fudyal ibn Iyyad said, “Music is the ruqyaa [incantation] of zinaa.”


  • In explaining the meaning of the verse concerning Hell, “It has seven gates, for each of those gates is a (special) class (of sinners) assigned.” [Al-Qur’aan 15:44];


  • ‘Ataa says: “The most severe of these gates in terms of heat, pain, sorrow, and stinking air is the gate for the doers of fornication, who did it (even) after knowing the awfulness of it.”


  • The Prophet said, “If one of you were to be stabbed in the head with a piece of iron it would be better for him than if he were to touch a woman whom it is not permissible for him to touch.” [Reported by al-Tabaraani; see also Sahih al-Jami’, 5045].



This refers to the punishment for touching, so how about worse deeds, such as embracing and kissing, and even worse kinds of illicit activity?!



A poet of ancient times has said:

‘All affairs begin with the sight,
the raging fire a spark can ignite




*****************************



‘While a contemporary poet declares:

‘A look, then a smile,
then a nod of the head,
then a talk, then a promise,
then the warmth of the bed’





Imam Ahmad rahimahullah said: “I do not know of any sin after murder that is worse than zina.”




  • During his ascension, the Prophet was escorted by Jibreel and shown different types of punishments meted out to those guilty of various major offenses. While recounting the various scenes shown to him, he said, “Then Jibreel took me and we passed by a group of people with terribly inflated bodies emitting worst foul smells just like that of open sewers; when I enquired who they were, he replied, ‘These are those who commit adultery!’” [Ibn Khuzaymah]


  • Narrated in Sahih al-Bukhari from ‘Amr ibn Maymoon who said: “During the Jaahiliyyah I saw a monkey which had committed zina, so the other monkeys got together and stoned it, and I stoned it with them.” [al-Manaaqib # 5360]



Ibn al-Qayyim (rahimahullah) said: “Allah ordained punishment for zina that differs from the punishment for other crimes in three ways:

1 - Execution in the most unpleasant form; when the punishment is reduced, it still combines the physical punishment of flogging with the emotional punishment of banishment.

2 - 1He forbade people when carrying out the punishment on the adulterers, to feel pity for them that would prevent them from carrying out the punishment. By His mercy towards them He prescribed this punishment, and He is more merciful to them than you, but His mercy did not prevent Him from ordaining this punishment, so your pity should not prevent you from carrying out His command…

3 - He enjoined that their punishment be carried out in the presence of some of the believers; it should not be done in isolation where no one can see them. That is more effective in serving the purpose of the punishment, and serves as a deterrent. [Al-Jawaab al-Kaafi, p. 144, 115 ]



Allah says in soorat an-Nisaa, when listing the women forbidden to marry: “Also (forbidden are) women already married…” [5:24]The word used here for that type of woman is ‘Muhsanaat’ which literally means ‘fortified’ from the word hisn meaning fort. It’s as if it’s saying the married woman are protected and preserved by marriage.




The arabic saying says:

A look, then a smile,

then a greeting,then speaking,

then an appointment, then a meeting




  • Ibn ‘Abbas radiallahu ‘anh narrated: “I have not seen anything resembling allamam (minor sins) than what Abu Hurayrah radiallahu ‘anh narrated from the prophet who said:

    “Allah has written for Adam’s son his share of adultery which he commits inevitably. The adultery of the eyes is the sight (to gaze at a forbidden thing), the adultery of the tongue is the talk, and the innerself wishes and desires and the private parts testify all this or deny it.”
    [sahih al-Bukhari, hadith 260 vol 8]



  • ‘Iktimah, Sumay’ and Kurayb report that Ibn ‘Abbaas – Allah be pleased with them – said to them: “Marry, for if the servant of Allah commits fornication Allah snatches the light of imaan from him, and may or may not return it to him.” [Ibn Sa’d in At-Tabaqaat Al-Kubraa 5/287]

_________________
SubhanAllaah wa alhamdulillah wa la il-Allaha ilAllaah wAllahu akbar
Back to top Go down
http://www.me-ate-all-the-cake/fatty.com
Z-Blade
Senior Member
avatar

Male Number of posts : 427
Location : In my own nightmare :O
Religion : Islam
Registration date : 2007-11-06

PostSubject: Re: Reminders regarding zinah   Tue Apr 01, 2008 11:46 pm

aswrwb,

Hmmm, did you have anyone in mind when posting that ukhti? scratch embarassed But JazakAllahu khair it really shows the seriousness of Zina, which is a major sin... though adultery is more worse. And Alhamdulillah that I've never come close to it and never will inshaAllah.

Wassalam.
Back to top Go down
http://www.OH-REALLY?.com
Al Qadr
Princess Super Mod
avatar

Female Number of posts : 1129
Location : Chocolate Factory
Religion : Islam
Registration date : 2007-11-03

PostSubject: Re: Reminders regarding zinah   Thu Apr 10, 2008 3:11 pm

Z-Blade wrote:
aswrwb,

wswrwb
Quote :

Hmmm, did you have anyone in mind when posting that ukhti? scratch embarassed

Nope scratch
received this in an email ages ago, had to delete some mail, so shared it here first as I noticed this topic had not been posted before. Good for reference/to have in this section confused

Quote :

But JazakAllahu khair it really shows the seriousness of Zina, which is a major sin... though adultery is more worse. And Alhamdulillah that I've never come close to it and never will inshaAllah.

Wassalam.
Na'am. Insha'Allaah thumbs up

aswrwb




Beauty in Refusing the Seduction of Women



It is reported that Abu Bakr al-Miski was once asked , “We always find a good odor emanating from you - why or how?”

He answered, “By Allah, for years now I have not used any perfume, but the reason for the good smell has to do with an ordeal that I passed through.

A woman once tricked me into entering her home. Then she closed and locked the door behind her, after which she began to seduce me. I became utterly bewildered as to what I should do, for I had no options before me.

I said to her, “I need to go and purify myself.”

She ordered her servant to take me to the bathroom, and when I entered it, I took faeces in my hand and wiped it all over my body. Then I returned to her in that state. Shocked to see me like that, the woman ordered that I be removed from her home. I left and immediately had a bath. That very night I saw a dream; in it, it was said to me,

“You have done that which no else has ever done. I will make your smell good and pure in this world and in the hereafter.”

When I woke up , the smell of perfume was emanating from my body, and it has continued to emanate from my body until this very moment.”

Taken from ‘al-Mawa’idh wal-Majalis’ page 224

_________________
SubhanAllaah wa alhamdulillah wa la il-Allaha ilAllaah wAllahu akbar
Back to top Go down
http://www.me-ate-all-the-cake/fatty.com
Z-Blade
Senior Member
avatar

Male Number of posts : 427
Location : In my own nightmare :O
Religion : Islam
Registration date : 2007-11-06

PostSubject: Re: Reminders regarding zinah   Thu Apr 10, 2008 4:27 pm

Al Qadr wrote:


Beauty in Refusing the Seduction of Women



It is reported that Abu Bakr al-Miski was once asked , “We always find a good odor emanating from you - why or how?”

He answered, “By Allah, for years now I have not used any perfume, but the reason for the good smell has to do with an ordeal that I passed through.

A woman once tricked me into entering her home. Then she closed and locked the door behind her, after which she began to seduce me. I became utterly bewildered as to what I should do, for I had no options before me.

I said to her, “I need to go and purify myself.”

She ordered her servant to take me to the bathroom, and when I entered it, I took faeces in my hand and wiped it all over my body. Then I returned to her in that state. Shocked to see me like that, the woman ordered that I be removed from her home. I left and immediately had a bath. That very night I saw a dream; in it, it was said to me,

“You have done that which no else has ever done. I will make your smell good and pure in this world and in the hereafter.”

When I woke up , the smell of perfume was emanating from my body, and it has continued to emanate from my body until this very moment.”

Taken from ‘al-Mawa’idh wal-Majalis’ page 224

wswrwb,

LoL, did that happen for real? scratch Hard to believe, I'm sure there were other ways out of that situation apart from covering himself in faeces?!

But that's one of the people Allah will Shade on The Day of Judgement: 3. A man whom a woman tries to seduce but he says that he is scared of Allah.

Wassalam.
Back to top Go down
http://www.OH-REALLY?.com
GuCcI
Senior Member
avatar

Female Number of posts : 141
Location : CANADA?
Religion : Islam
Registration date : 2008-01-18

PostSubject: Re: Reminders regarding zinah   Wed Apr 16, 2008 7:17 pm

wow those hadith are pretty scary No
Back to top Go down
Admin
FrequentlyAbsent (EvenThoughFounder)
avatar

Male Number of posts : 3564
Location : Admin Panel
Religion : Islam
Registration date : 2007-11-01

PostSubject: Re: Reminders regarding zinah   Thu Apr 17, 2008 10:28 pm

Quote :
LoL, did that happen for real? Hard to believe, I'm sure there were other ways out of that situation apart from covering himself in faeces?!

Personally i don't believe these stories are real, i heard an exact copy of this story except just in there the man shaved off his hair, beard, moustache and eyebrows, with a razor which coincidentally happened to be in his pocket, everything else is exactly the same, down to how she locked the door behind him and all.

These stories are just parables, you're just supposed to get the moral of the story, it doesn't mean it actually happened.

but if it did happen or didn't happen that only Allah knows, this is just my opinion on the matter.

_________________
“There is no worse calamity for knowledge and its people than when outsiders intrude. They are ignorant, but presume to know. They cause trouble yet think that they are helping.” - Imam Ibn Hazm Rahimahullah

Back to top Go down
http://darulilm.forumotion.com
Dawn
Member


Female Number of posts : 75
Location : Oreo
Religion : Islam
Registration date : 2008-04-17

PostSubject: Re: Reminders regarding zinah   Wed Apr 23, 2008 8:12 am

JizKAllah Khair .May Allah keep us away from all major sins and minor sins, May Allah protect us from trial.
Back to top Go down
al_muslimin1431
Newbie


Male Number of posts : 1
Religion : Islam
Registration date : 2009-12-22

PostSubject: Re: Reminders regarding zinah   Tue Dec 22, 2009 11:57 am

Assalamu Alaikum!

MashaAllah!

thanks for the Reminders...

can I ask you something?
Back to top Go down
Nisaa
Member


Female Number of posts : 2677
Religion : Islam
Registration date : 2008-07-02

PostSubject: Re: Reminders regarding zinah   Tue Dec 22, 2009 1:19 pm

wswrwb

Go ahead.. you needn't ask to ask, just ask, I'm sure someone will know the answer.
Back to top Go down
Sponsored content




PostSubject: Re: Reminders regarding zinah   

Back to top Go down
 
Reminders regarding zinah
View previous topic View next topic Back to top 
Page 1 of 1
 Similar topics
-
» .:Ramadan Post-It Reminders:.
» LAKUKANLAH ZINAH ATAS PERINTAH TUHAN DI ALKITAB
» *The Homemaker*
» Jumuah reminder (to read surat al-kahf) graphics
» White Days Reminders by Aisha

Permissions in this forum:You cannot reply to topics in this forum
Darul Ilm :: Learn About Islam :: Learn About Islam-
Jump to: