Okay so I am going to send her this article.. I read it too, I thought it was good, highlight, and then write something to her, to tell her what to, to make her realise what she said... but I need help..

Here's the article:

Speaking About Allah Without Knowledge

(...) Al-Qurtubee in his tafseer, he talks about such people who say when they read the Quraan in my mind this comes to my mind, or my heart tells me this, and he concludes who reads the Quraan and says, "ask your heart" or "my heart tells me," and so forth, they are speaking about Allaah without knowledge ('ilm), which, as we will talk about, one of the greatest sins that we could commit, and that they are actually from zanaadiqa, those who have nothing to do with Islaam, and he said they should be killed as apostates (murtadeen). (...)

When you go to the Quraan and you read a verse from the Quraan and you explain that verse without having the propher knowledge, without following the proper methodology, you might be and only Allaah swt knows, actually following your own hawaa, following your own desires, you might be following an inspiration from the Shaytaan, you might be following dhann (conjecture), which Allaah swt speaks about in many places in the Qur'aan, or it might actually be some kind of inspirataion from Allaah swt, but most likely it is not the last case. And why is it not the last case? Because as we will talk about it later, you did not follow the proper methodology of talking about the Qur'aan and if you did not follow a proper methodology of talking about the Quran, then you have committed a sin already. Just by talking about the Quraan, without proper knowledge, by giving interpretation of the Quraan, without proper knowledge, without proper background, without being qualified to do so, then you've already committed a sin. And since you are commiting a sin, it is very unlikely in most cases that Allaah swt will bless you through that sin to give you the right interpretation of the Quran.

When you say that Allaah swt means this or Allaah swt means that in a specific verse, you are actually speaking or saying something on behalf of Allaah swt, you are actually speaking about Allaah swt, and if you are speaking without knowledge, without 'ilm, this is one of the greatest sins that you could commit.

In fact, Ibn ul Qayyim said that it is the greatest sin. Ibn ul Qayyim said that speaking about Allaah swt without `ilm is the greatest sin that you could commit. He bases it on this verse:

"Qul innamaa 7arrama Rabbi-l-fawaa7isha maa DHahara minhaa wa maa baTan, wal-ithma wal-baghya bi ghayri-l-7aqq, wa an tushrikoo bi-Llaahi maa lam yunazzil bihi sulTaanaa, wa an taqoolo 3ala-l-Laahi maa laa ta3lamoon."

"Say: The things that my Lord has indeed forbidden are al-Fawaahishah (great evil sins, every kind of unlawful sexual intercourse, etc.), whether committed openly or secretly, sins (of all kinds), unrighteous oppession, joining partners (in worship) with Allaah for which He has given no authority and saying things about Allaah of which you have no knowledge." [The Noble Qur'aan, 7]

In discussing this verse, he says, first of all there are some sins which are haraam li-dhaatihi, forbidden due to their own evil nature, and (others which are) haraam li ghairihi, which are forbidden because they lead to some evil or have some evil in them.

And he said with respect to this verse, all of these four, they are haraam in dhaatihi, they are haraam in their own essence, because of the evil in them. Continuing his discussion, he said that Allaah swt first mentions al-fawaahishah, and he says this is the least of the sins that He mentions, after that He mentions the sins of transpasses against the truth; this is a greater sin that the first one that Allaah mentioned.

And then He mentioned making shirk, and finally He mentioned saying things about Allaah swt of which you have no knowledge. He is saying that Allaah swt is going from from the lesser to the greater. And the reason he says is that this last sin of saying about Allaah swt without 'ilm, which is actually what you do when you make tafseer without the proper background, without the proper methodology, he says it involves and it includes many things even more than what commiting shirk involves. He says it involves and it includes:

• ascribing something falsely to Allaah swt
  
• changing or altering the religion of Allaah swt
  
• denying what He has confirmed or
  
• confirming what He has denied,
  
• affirming something declaring false or
  
• declaring something false as true, and it also includes
  
• supporting something that Allaah swt dislikes or opposes,
  
• supporting something that Allaah swt dislikes or opposes, and
  
• liking something that Allaah swt dislikes.

In other words, when you are speaking without 'ilm, in the religion, in things which are related to the religion, then in fact you are changing the religion of Allaah swt. And in fact, if you continue what he wrote - this is right from "Madaarij us Saalikeen", 1:372-3 - you find that in fact speaking without `ilm is actually the real source of all kufr and shirk.

He said, for example, the polytheists claim what they are worshipping instead of Allaah swt was something to take them closer to Allaah swt, so the cause of their shirk was saying something about Allaah swt without `ilm, something they did not know about Allaah swt.

Similarly today, the greatest kufr that we have nowadays, among Muslims, but especially among non-Muslims, is secularism and the basis for that is saying that Allaah swt doesn't really care about what we do in worldly affairs, or hasn't really given us guidance for worldly affairs, or the Deen that He sent is not meant for daily affairs; all of this is speaking about Allaah without knowledge.

So in fact, it is one of the greatest sins, and Ibn ul Qayyim even included that it is in fact the greatest sin. And he also mentioned that every bid'ah, every innovation, also is based on some statement that has no support from the Qur'aan and Sunnah, in other words every bid`ah also is based on some statement which is actually made without `ilm.

To think about this point even further, about just going to the Qur'aan, and saying, I am a believer I am pious, I can go to the Qur'aan, and read the Qur'aan, and get its own meaning, if there was any people in the history of mankind who could have said that - maybe we could accept this from them - would be the Companions of the Prophet saws, for many reasons:

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They witnessed the revelation of the Quraan itself,
they witnessed the events it was referring to, they were living the events that it was referring to,
the Quran was revealed in their language, the language of their time,
Allaah swt chose them to be the Companions of the Prophet saws,
and he described them as the best generation.

So if anyone could actually make that claim that he has such a pure heart and such a close relationship to Allaah swt or such a good understanding of Islaam, that he can go to the Quraan and interpret the Quraan simply by what his heart tells him or what they used to call ra'ee (personal opinion) - after the Soofees it became "What the heart tells you," but originally it was called ra'ee or personal opinion, it would be the Sahaaba, but if we go to the Sahaaba we see that what they understood and what they learned from the Prophet saws in fact is the complete opposite. What they learned is that it is absolutely forbidden to speak about the Quraan without proper knowledge.

And they made such statements. For example, Aboo Bakr one time said, "What earth would give me place to live and what sky would shade me if I should speak about the Qur'aan with my opinion or by something I do not know." And `Umar ibn al Khattaab, he also said, "Beware of using your opinion in religious matters." And Ibn `Abbaas, the one who the Prophet saws made du`aa for him to understand the Qur'aan, to get the understanding of the Deen, and to be given by Allaah swt the ta`weel or the understanding of the Qur'aan, he also said, "All that there is to follow and obey is the Book of Allaah and the Sunnah of His Messenger. Whoever makes any statement after these two according to his opinion, then I do not know if you'll find among his good deeds or among his sins."

This is the style of Ibn `Abbaas, that he made in many statements. Meaning that even if what you did was something good, looks like something good, you will find it among your sins. And at-Tirmidhee, in his Sunan, he said it has been related from some of the people of `ilm, people of knowledge, the Sahaaba of the Prophet saws and others, that they that they were very strict when it came to speaking about the Qur'aan without `ilm.

- by Jamaal al-Din Zarabozo

='( I just had the most scariest thought, if she passes away (and insha Allah she doesn't)

Quote:

will it be on my head because I never told her?

What does your heart tell you?

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“There is no worse calamity for knowledge and its people than when outsiders intrude. They are ignorant, but presume to know. They cause trouble yet think that they are helping.” - Imam Ibn Hazm Rahimahullah

yes it'll be on my head! nooo, please help me come up with something!

Shall I just blurt it out, just say it fact. Times wasting..

Yeah that was a bit weird.

Is it required to repeat shahada and if I tell her to, there's no such thing as implied takfeer is there? =s Yes I worry about every little thing..

okay so sending...

sent.

=(

I feel horrible.

What if she doesn't read it fast, I've done by bit? I'm selfish I know, but I can't help it.. I do worry what will happen to me. =(

You shouldn't feel horrible, you are helping another muslim, plus you imparting knowledge, so you'll be rewarded for what you done Inshaa Allaah.

But I wasted so many days to think.

Anyway I messaged her to check her email, insha Allah she will, and I might text her too to check also. =o

for helping me.

I learnt some stuff from that article, it was an eye opener for me too. I'll go make it look nicer so more people read.

and I added who wrote it.

I'm going to read it fully too Inshaa Allaah

It says them that worship the dinar or the dirham.. = so they love money, and that is shirk? I can't remember right..

But is it also for clothes? If you love your clothes to be a certain brand? That is wrong? Or do they mean in a sense that it takes over, so it interferes with your Islam?

I guess it can show arrogance though right?

I know horoscopes/palm reading is all wrong, what about them facebook quizzes what say 'what is your idea career' I don't do them, but other people do and you tend to read and some of the stuff what is says for them in the quizzes and it makes you wonder... because it's stuff like 'you're this and this kind of a person, and this is best suited to you' ... do you get what I'm saying? Would you say them are wrong too? I feel like I should stay far away from even reading other people's stuff?

Can someone give me the proper dua for protection from shirk? I've been on the makedua website, the Arabic says something different to the transliteration... =s

ermm..

I was finding a hadith.. I think it's this one actually, but could you tell me if you're allowed to use these kinda words for Allah? As in if these are equivalent/exact translations from Arabic?

Secondly, for a person to be given the ability to make du’a is a great blessing in itself. A person who raises his hand in du’a before Allah Ta'ala should never be concerned whether the du’a will be accepted or not. A person should have complete conviction that whatever du’a is made will definitely be accepted in the court of Allah. It is mentioned in a Hadith recorded by Abu Dawood, Tirmizi, Ibn Majah and Mustadrak Haakim that, Allah is extremely kind, One who gives without asking, Allah is extremely modest and shy, when His servants spread their hands before Him, He feels shy to refuse or reject their requests.

Can someone explain to me what is shirk khafi...

Because all I know about it is to dislike something that has happened and to blame someone else for it... (and that's shirk because you're joining partners with Allah saying that oh if so and so done that then this etc..)

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Does that also mean you can't get angry at someone? Like if they did something so stupid is it wrong to feel anger... because sometimes you can't control it? Like you don't go and yell at them and strangle them, but just the anger inside... I wonder if that's wrong to feel..

Basically I just wanna know all about it.

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?p=3364041#post3364041


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That statement does not sound right... right? I heard one time (looong time ago so memory might be crusty), that you can't say that, at least I'm sure it was similar and in stead say the love of Allah is inside our hearts.. or fear or whatever you wanna say..

I feel nervous now when someone mentions something and I feel a bit =s about it, I can't leave it.. I feel like I'm responsible.. so am I if I don't say anything?

I dunno, I wouldn't know what to say, I just want someone else to say something.. =( plus I am not knowledgeable so.. I couldn't say anything anyway..